Our signature monthly networking party returns with style, raffle prizes, no cover, drink specials, and a whole lotta queers for networking, mixing, and mingling. REGISTER HERE
No Cover. We are again partnering with Union Square Optical to create another very special, uber-GAY private shopping & networking party. Featuring complimentary wine, lots of pretty people, networking, flirting, and giveaways. Plus, all attendees shall get 50% off all frames in the store, including brand-new looks for the fall season, including designs from Dita, Tom Ford, Oliver Peoples, Paul Smith, Garrett Leight, Entourage of 7, and other fashion-forward eyewear and sunwear. Click here to see the full list of designers. RSVP NOW
We all know about the Stonewall riots in 1969. But who knows that Mae West was arrested in Manhattan for producing a pro-gay-rights play in 1926? Or that Walt Whitman read his homoerotic poems to friends at a bar on Broadway? Professor Andrew Lear has designed this tour to bring New York's gay *history* out of the closet. We leave from the historic Stonewall Inn (come early or stay after to enjoy an adult beverage). REGISTER NOW
No cover, happy hour drink specials, hundreds of handsome attendees, plus the return of our Annual Coat Drive benefiting NY Cares. This signature event is the one holiday event NYC Gays dare not miss. Our first coat drive party was in 2007, and we have collected well over 10,000 coats for NYers in need. We know you still have that big puffy stay-puff marshmallow man coat from 2002 and the toggle coat you got after watching Dead POets Society. You’ll never wear them again, so why not donate them to a very good cause? For every coat you donate, you will get a free raffle entry for some really great prizes! REGISTER NOW
Tis the season to be gay — and we mean laugh-out-loud, holiday-chaos gay! Get ready for a night of glitter, giggles, and unapologetic queer joy as the GayLarious Holiday Laugh Fest decks the halls with punchlines and pride. Expect hilarious holiday confessions, naughty-and-nice jokes, and enough queer cheer to light up your menorah, tree, or whoever has been naughty! BOOK NOW
Forget Painting Nights, join us for an afternoon where you can eat your artwork!! Welcome to NYC's only Gay Gingerbread House Making Class, Cocktails & Holiday Cartoons Party (for adult gays only)! It will be a night of holiday cheer as you come together with other fun members of TheMenEvent and friends for socializing, eating and drinking. An Annual Holiday Tradition. BOOK NOW
Ready to flirt like it’s your full-time job? You’ll go on a series of short, one-on-one mini dates—plus three juicy bonus mingle sessions where you can work the room, make eyes across the bar, and charm literally every cutie in sight. If you’re a gay man looking for love (or lust… or just a fantastic story), you’re in the right place. You might meet your future boyfriend, your new bestie, or that one guy who somehow becomes your business partner and brunch buddy. This event brings together NYC’s most eligible bachelors and has already played matchmaker for lots and lots of delighted couples. Werk. BOOK NOW
Time Out NY says "If you're a fuzzy dude or a total admirer, then head to this speed-dating hustle, where you can meet the furball of your dreams." How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night (it's a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other). Plus you get 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. REGISTER NOW
❄️ Gay-Larious February Laugh Fest: The Coolest Comedy Show in Town! 🌈 Bundle up, buttercup—it’s about to get frosty and fabulous! Gay-Larious is back this February with a lineup of LGBTQ+ comedy legends ready to melt your icy little heart and turn your winter blues into hot pink giggles. Expect blazing punchlines, chilly shade, and blizzard-level laughter as our comics bring enough heat to defrost Times Square. Forget your seasonal depression—this is seasonal obsession. BOOK NOW
Created for the younger gay man (35 and under) who has the hots for the handsome older successful mature man, enjoying nights painting the town red with an older, established gay. If you often find sincere connections with men outside your age range, this is the event for you. How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night (it's a really fun, quick, and easy way for gay men to meet each other). Plus you get 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. BOOK NOW
Ready to flirt like it’s your full-time job? You’ll go on a series of short, one-on-one mini dates—plus three juicy bonus mingle sessions where you can work the room, make eyes across the bar, and charm literally every cutie in sight. If you’re a gay man looking for love (or lust… or just a fantastic story), you’re in the right place. You might meet your future boyfriend, your new bestie, or that one guy who somehow becomes your business partner and brunch buddy. This event brings together NYC’s most eligible bachelors and has already played matchmaker for lots and lots of delighted couples. Werk. BOOK NOW
A guided tour through the Gallery District, seeing this month's best open exhibits & socializing with other LGBTQ & friends from our community. Join us for a Saturday afternoon adventure through the Chelsea Gallery District! BOOK NOW
Ready to flirt like it’s your full-time job? You’ll go on a series of short, one-on-one mini dates—plus three juicy bonus mingle sessions where you can work the room, make eyes across the bar, and charm literally every cutie in sight. If you’re a gay man looking for love (or lust… or just a fantastic story), you’re in the right place. You might meet your future boyfriend, your new bestie, or that one guy who somehow becomes your business partner and brunch buddy. This event brings together NYC’s most eligible bachelors and has already played matchmaker for lots and lots of delighted couples. Werk. BOOK NOW
Get ready for a cauldron of comedy with a lineup so fang-tastic, it’s scary! These comics will have you howling with laughter and bewitched by their charm. It's a night where every ghoul and goblin can have a gay ole’ time. 6:15 doors/7pm show BOOK NOW
Our signature monthly networking party returns with style, raffle prizes, no cover, drink specials, and a whole lotta queers for networking, mixing, and mingling. REGISTER HERE
This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors and has proven to be a huge success, making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick, and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus, you will get three additional bonus periods where you may meet anyone in the room. BOOK NOW
A guided tour through the Gallery District, seeing this month's best open exhibits & socializing with other LGBTQ & friends from our community. Join us for a Saturday afternoon adventure through the Chelsea Gallery District! BOOK NOW
Treat yourself to an upscale gaming & social mixer. We have our own private gaming lounge with darts, a pool table, foosball, and more, including many tabletop games. Meet new friends from our LGBTQ community, share fun times & enjoy a luxe lounge experience. BOOK NOW
Join us for a casual, fun & free meetup. Make new friends from our community while taking in the sites, fresh air & exercise. Licensed NYC Tour Guide David Herszenson will be showing us lots and sharing interesting stories as he tours Rock Center.
Sober, Sober-Curious, or Sober Sponsor? Join us for a Friday fun time with games, music, and new friends from our community in a cool community rec center. REGISTER HERE
Our signature FREE monthly LGBT networking party returns with style, raffle prizes, no cover, drink specials, and a whole lotta queers for networking, mixing, and mingling. PLUS we celebrate the book launch of Sanity Clause, by mystery writer and Broadway legend Frank “Fraver” Verizzo. REGISTER HERE
Created for the younger gay man (35 and under) who has the hots for the handsome older successful mature man, enjoying nights painting the town red with an older, established gay. If you often find sincere connections with men outside your age range, this is the event for you. How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night (it's a really fun, quick, and easy way for gay men to meet each other). Plus you get 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. BOOK NOW
Treat yourself to an upscale gaming & social mixer. We have our own private gaming lounge with darts, a pool table, foosball, and more, including many tabletop games. Meet new friends from our LGBTQ community, share fun times & enjoy a luxe lounge experience. BOOK NOW
A guided tour through the Gallery District seeing this month's best open exhibits & socializing with other LGBTQ & friends from our community. Join us for a Saturday afternoon adventure through the Chelsea Gallery District! BOOK NOW
We all know about the Stonewall riots in 1969. But who knows that Mae West was arrested in Manhattan for producing a pro-gay-rights play in 1926? Or that Walt Whitman read his homoerotic poems to friends at a bar on Broadway? Professor Andrew Lear has designed this tour to bring New York's gay *history* out of the closet. We leave from the historic Stonewall Inn (come early or stay after to enjoy an adult beverage). REGISTER NOW
Got big plans for Pride weekend? Pregame at the Banky Museum and celebrate Pride Month while proving you're the best at being queer, or the best ally, by flexing your NYC queer history knowledge. Or just come for the free drink and prizes. Entry is $5 and includes your first drink free, plus the chance to win prizes. BOOK NOW
Trade the sidewalk for the skyline and set sail with lots of fabulous queers for the ultimate Pride Week sunset party on the water. Advance ticket incluldes live DJ, private area of the boat just for the queers, drink ticket and great vibes. BOOK NOW
This stand-up comedy series (now in it’s 10th year) features a great line-up of NYC's funniest LGBT and LGBT friendly comedians from TV, radio and comedy clubs across the country. You'll have a gay ole' time with a line-up of hysterical comics designed to have you laughing right down to your gay funny bones. 6:15 doors/7pm show BOOK NOW
This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors and has proven to be a huge success, making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick, and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus, you will get three additional bonus periods where you may meet anyone in the room. BOOK NOW
Join us for an old-school dance to remember! An excuse to dress fancy...do the 'Cupid Shuffle' & the 'Electric Slide' & show your Pride! DANCE * DRINK * DINE * SOCIALIZE * OLD SCHOOL DANCE VIBES! Advance tickets are only $12.50. BOOK NOW
A guided tour through the Gallery District seeing this month's best open exhibits & socializing with other LGBTQ & friends from our community. Join us for a Saturday afternoon adventure through the Chelsea Gallery District! BOOK NOW
Our signature monthly networking party returns with style, raffle prizes, no cover, drink specials, and a whole lotta queers for networking, mixing, and mingling. REGISTER HERE
You are invited to the Opening Reception for a new exhibit by the celebrated Gay artist SCOTT JOPEPH (note - this art is very, very gay with lots of handsome gentlemen wearing very little). FREE EVENT
Get up to 50% OFF events! Sale ends Memorial Day Monday 5/25. See details HERE
A guided tour through the Gallery District seeing this month's best open exhibits & socializing with other LGBTQ & friends from our community. Join us for a Saturday afternoon adventure through the Chelsea Gallery District! BOOK NOW
Treat yourself to an upscale gaming & social mixer. We have our own private gaming lounge with darts, a pool table, foosball, and more, including many tabletop games. Meet new friends from our LGBTQ community, share fun times & enjoy a luxe lounge experience. BOOK NOW
Our signature monthly networking party returns with style, raffle prizes, no cover, drink specials, and hundreds of queers for networking, mixing, and mingling. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER
Join us for a casual, fun, free meetup and educational meetup. Licensed NYC Tour Guide David Herszenson will be showing us lots of interesting stories as we tour Roosevelt Island. Make new friends from our community while taking in the sights, fresh air & exercise. BOOKING BEGINS 4/11
This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors and has proven to be a huge success, making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick, and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus, you will get three additional bonus periods where you may meet anyone in the room. BOOK NOW
A guided tour through the Gallery District seeing this month's best open exhibits & socializing with other LGBTQ & friends from our community. Join us for a Saturday afternoon adventure through the Chelsea Gallery District! BOOK NOW
Because Nothing Is Certain Except Death, Taxes… and Being Extra
Why stress over spreadsheets when you can spread cheeks—from laughing? This April 15, we’re turning Tax Day into Slay Day with the fiercest lineup of LGBTQ+ comics ready to audit your attitude and itemize your issues. At GayLarious Tax Day LGBT Laugh Fest, the only thing getting filed is a complaint from your abs after laughing too hard. We’re talking bracket-busting jokes, capital GAYS, and deductions so sharp they qualify as dependents. BOOK NOW
