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A guided tour through the Gallery District, seeing this month's best open exhibits & socializing with other LGBTQ & friends from our community. Join us for a Saturday afternoon adventure through the Chelsea Gallery District! BOOK NOW
No Cover. We are again partnering with Union Square Optical to create another very special, uber-GAY private shopping & networking party. Featuring complimentary wine, lots of pretty people, networking, flirting, and giveaways. Plus, all attendees shall get 50% off all frames in the store, including brand-new looks for the fall season, including designs from Dita, Tom Ford, Oliver Peoples, Paul Smith, Garrett Leight, Entourage of 7, and other fashion-forward eyewear and sunwear. Click here to see the full list of designers. RSVP NOW
We all know about the Stonewall riots in 1969. But who knows that Mae West was arrested in Manhattan for producing a pro-gay-rights play in 1926? Or that Walt Whitman read his homoerotic poems to friends at a bar on Broadway? Professor Andrew Lear has designed this tour to bring New York's gay *history* out of the closet. We leave from the historic Stonewall Inn (come early or stay after to enjoy an adult beverage). REGISTER NOW
No cover, happy hour drink specials, hundreds of handsome attendees, plus the return of our Annual Coat Drive benefiting NY Cares. This signature event is the one holiday event NYC Gays dare not miss. Our first coat drive party was in 2007, and we have collected well over 10,000 coats for NYers in need. We know you still have that big puffy stay-puff marshmallow man coat from 2002 and the toggle coat you got after watching Dead POets Society. You’ll never wear them again, so why not donate them to a very good cause? For every coat you donate, you will get a free raffle entry for some really great prizes! REGISTER NOW
Tis the season to be gay — and we mean laugh-out-loud, holiday-chaos gay! Get ready for a night of glitter, giggles, and unapologetic queer joy as the GayLarious Holiday Laugh Fest decks the halls with punchlines and pride. Expect hilarious holiday confessions, naughty-and-nice jokes, and enough queer cheer to light up your menorah, tree, or whoever has been naughty! BOOK NOW
Forget Painting Nights, join us for an afternoon where you can eat your artwork!! Welcome to NYC's only Gay Gingerbread House Making Class, Cocktails & Holiday Cartoons Party (for adult gays only)! It will be a night of holiday cheer as you come together with other fun members of TheMenEvent and friends for socializing, eating and drinking. An Annual Holiday Tradition. BOOK NOW
Ready to flirt like it’s your full-time job? You’ll go on a series of short, one-on-one mini dates—plus three juicy bonus mingle sessions where you can work the room, make eyes across the bar, and charm literally every cutie in sight. If you’re a gay man looking for love (or lust… or just a fantastic story), you’re in the right place. You might meet your future boyfriend, your new bestie, or that one guy who somehow becomes your business partner and brunch buddy. This event brings together NYC’s most eligible bachelors and has already played matchmaker for lots and lots of delighted couples. Werk. BOOK NOW
Time Out NY says "If you're a fuzzy dude or a total admirer, then head to this speed-dating hustle, where you can meet the furball of your dreams." How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night (it's a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other). Plus you get 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. REGISTER NOW
❄️ Gay-Larious February Laugh Fest: The Coolest Comedy Show in Town! 🌈 Bundle up, buttercup—it’s about to get frosty and fabulous! Gay-Larious is back this February with a lineup of LGBTQ+ comedy legends ready to melt your icy little heart and turn your winter blues into hot pink giggles. Expect blazing punchlines, chilly shade, and blizzard-level laughter as our comics bring enough heat to defrost Times Square. Forget your seasonal depression—this is seasonal obsession. BOOK NOW
Created for the younger gay man (35 and under) who has the hots for the handsome older successful mature man, enjoying nights painting the town red with an older, established gay. If you often find sincere connections with men outside your age range, this is the event for you. How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night (it's a really fun, quick, and easy way for gay men to meet each other). Plus you get 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. BOOK NOW
Ready to flirt like it’s your full-time job? You’ll go on a series of short, one-on-one mini dates—plus three juicy bonus mingle sessions where you can work the room, make eyes across the bar, and charm literally every cutie in sight. If you’re a gay man looking for love (or lust… or just a fantastic story), you’re in the right place. You might meet your future boyfriend, your new bestie, or that one guy who somehow becomes your business partner and brunch buddy. This event brings together NYC’s most eligible bachelors and has already played matchmaker for lots and lots of delighted couples. Werk. BOOK NOW
Since 2004, TheMenEvent has created over 2000 events the entire LGBT+ community (and allies) to facilitate social connections. Our events foster new friendships, entertain, and expand our horizons. Have an event that you'd like to feature? Contact Hugh@TheMenEvent.com
Our signature monthly networking party returns with style, raffle prizes, no cover, drink specials, and a whole lotta queers for networking, mixing, and mingling. REGISTER HERE