Wed 9/28: Cocktails On The GO GO Gay Networking Party
Sep
28
6:00 pm18:00

Wed 9/28: Cocktails On The GO GO Gay Networking Party

It's time to build your full social calendar back in the big city. Our signature monthly networking party is returning with a new name, and a new emphasis on new spaces. Every month we will take over a new space and get our gay on. This month we head to a venue you probably have never visited. We have the entire 2nd floor, including a lovely outdoor terrace), and you will love it! REGISTER NOW

Mon 10/3 - Gay Walking Tour of Grand Central
Oct
3
6:50 pm18:50

Mon 10/3 - Gay Walking Tour of Grand Central

  • Pershing Square Cafe

Our most popular tour! Learn about secret platforms, top secret rooms and interesting facts and surprises during this adventure filled with exploring, socializing and learning. Meet other dynamic people in our group while really getting a different perspective on one of New York's most famous landmarks. Following the tour the group is invited to stay together for food and drink at a local tavern. REGISTER NOW

Tue 10/25: Big Gay Networking Party and Private Shopping Event
Oct
25
5:00 pm17:00

Tue 10/25: Big Gay Networking Party and Private Shopping Event

  • Union Square Optical

After a highly successful event last season, we are again partnering with Union Square Optical to create another very special, uber Gay Private Shopping and networking event.  Featuring complimentary wine, lots of handsome men, networking and giveaways.  Plus, all attendees shall get 50% off all frames in the store. REGISTER NOW

Wed 10/26: Gay Speed Dating for Professionals
Oct
26
6:30 pm18:30

Wed 10/26: Gay Speed Dating for Professionals

  • Gossip Bar

If you are a Gay Professional looking to find love, then look no further. You may meet the future love of your life, make a great new friend, or even meet a future business partner. This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. REGISTER NOW

Wed 11/2: Gay Speed Dating for Bears and Scruff Lovers
Nov
2
6:30 pm18:30

Wed 11/2: Gay Speed Dating for Bears and Scruff Lovers

  • Space: TBA

As Time Out NY says: 'If you're a fuzzy dude or a total admirer, then head to this speed-dating hustle, where you can meet the furball of your dreams."  Do you like your man with a bit of scruff? This event caters to New York City's most eligible bears & scruff lovers.  You will go on 8 short dates in one night, plus 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. REGISTER NOW

Sat  11/12 -"Fall Colors" Central Park Gay Walking Tour
Nov
12
2:00 pm14:00

Sat 11/12 -"Fall Colors" Central Park Gay Walking Tour

  • Tavern on the Green

Central Park is one of the most beautiful parts of New York City!  It is even more stunning on a gorgeous fall afternoon below the city skyline.  This opportunity does not last long and there is no better way to experience it than to be with dozens of fun and friendly members of our group.  


Wed 9/21 - San Gennaro Italian Feast Scavenger Hunt - CANCELLED
Sep
21
7:00 pm19:00

Wed 9/21 - San Gennaro Italian Feast Scavenger Hunt - CANCELLED

  • Little Italy

The Feast of San Gennaro is one of NYC's oldest and largest festivals. Join us as the streets of Little Italy come alive with food, drink, games, lights, live music and hundreds of vendors with cool things for you to discover with other members of our group. Come alone or with friends as we'll set you up in teams then send you off on a fun and exciting evening with a chance to win great prizes!  REGISTER NOW

Wed 9/14 Gay Speed Dating for Professionals
Sep
14
6:30 pm18:30

Wed 9/14 Gay Speed Dating for Professionals

  • Old Castle Pub

If you are a Gay Professional looking to find love, then look no further. You may meet the future love of your life, make a great new friend, or even meet a future business partner. This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus there are 3 bonus parts of the evening where you can flirt with everyone in the room. REGISTER NOW

Gay Speed Dating for Bears, Cubs and Scruff Lovers
Aug
17
6:30 pm18:30

Gay Speed Dating for Bears, Cubs and Scruff Lovers

If you're a bear, cub, wolf, otter, or lover of all things scruffy, come participate in our gay speed dating event! Are you a Yogi bear in search of a Boo Boo? Are you an otter looking for the wolf of his dreams? You may meet the future love of your life, make a great new friend, or even meet a future business partner!  This event caters to New York City's most eligible bears, cubs, & scruff lovers.  Our speed dating events have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. How does it work?  You will go on 8 short dates in one night!  Each date lasts 6 to 8 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. If there is chemistry from both guys, we will connect the two and you can go on more dates. REGISTER NOW

Sun 8/14  - Shady Ladies of the Met Museum
Aug
14
2:00 pm14:00

Sun 8/14 - Shady Ladies of the Met Museum

  • Metropolitan Museum of Art

The art in the Metropolitan Museum is full of beautiful women—but only a few of them were respectable mothers and wives. Instead, the museum is packed with scandalous women: courtesans, mistresses, “professional beauties,” and so on. Come on our tour, and learn the backstories of these sexy and enterprising women who fascinated patrons and artists alike for centuries. Register NOW

Gay Speed Dating for Professionals
Aug
10
6:30 pm18:30

Gay Speed Dating for Professionals

  • Old Castle Pub

If you are a Gay Professional looking to find love, then look no further. You may meet the future love of your life, make a great new friend, or even meet a future business partner. This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. If there is chemistry from both guys, we will connect the two and you can go on more dates. REGISTER NOW

Wed 7/13 Gay Speed Dating for Professionals
Jul
13
6:30 pm18:30

Wed 7/13 Gay Speed Dating for Professionals

  • Gossip

If you are a Gay Professional looking to find love, then look no further. This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. If there is chemistry from both guys, we will connect the two and you can go on more dates. REGISTER NOW

Wed 6/29: A Fundraiser for Orlando: A Night of Remembrance
Jun
29
6:00 pm18:00

Wed 6/29: A Fundraiser for Orlando: A Night of Remembrance

Please join OPEN Finance, Out in Tech, TheMenEvent, JetBlue, and Stonewall Community Foundation for an evening of remembrance and resilience. Event includes Silent Auction, raffle for Jet Blue tickets, celebrity DJ,  All proceeds will benefit LGBTQ organizations directly involved with supporting the survivors, victims, families, and community affected by this month’s tragic shooting in Orlando.  Tickets: showclix.com/event/WeAreOrlando  

Sat 6/25 - Gay History Walking Tour of the West Village
Jun
25
6:00 pm18:00

Sat 6/25 - Gay History Walking Tour of the West Village

  • Stonewall Inn

We all know about the Stonewall riots in 1969. But who knows that Mae West was arrested in Manhattan for producing a pro-gay-rights play in 1926? Or that Walt Whitman read his homoerotic poems to friends at a bar on Broadway? This tour brings New York's gay *history* out of the closet. Like Paris' Left Bank, the Village has been the center of all of the city's many countercultures and artistic movements, from the Bohemians of the World War I period to the Beats, the Abstract Expressionists, the New York School, Pop Art, the creators of Off (and Off-Off) Broadway, and of course the gay liberation movement. REGISTER NOW

Fri 6/24 - Riot
Jun
24
Jun 25

Fri 6/24 - Riot

  • Liberty Hall at Ace Hotel

Vincent Cooper & our friends at Guy Social are extending a discount code for their Pride Friday dance party RIOT, starting at 10pm! Come decked out in your favorite "Pride Warrior" attire (camouflage, army jackets, glitter everything). They also have artist Joey Suarez doing FREE glow-paint body art! Ryan Skyy will DJ the event, with a spectacular half-time show from Marti Gould Cummings, Brita Filter, & Andrew Barret Cox. This Friday night party is not to be missed! AND a portion of the proceeds are being donated to the Pulse Victims' Fund! Use promo code RIOTMENEVENT to save $5. Tix: riotpride.eventbrite.com

Tues 6/21 - Macy’s Celebrates PRIDE 2016!
Jun
21
6:00 pm18:00

Tues 6/21 - Macy’s Celebrates PRIDE 2016!

  • Macy's Herald Square

Macy's celebrates Pride Month 2016! Mix and mingle with other supporters of equality while enjoying live music, passed catering, tempting cocktails, the famous “Wall of Chance,” giveaways, charity silent auction, live performances, celebrity DJ, photo booths with models and much much more. This event is not to be missed! REGISTER NOW

Sat 6/18 - The Amazing Gay Pride Scavenger Hunt
Jun
18
1:30 pm13:30

Sat 6/18 - The Amazing Gay Pride Scavenger Hunt

  • Stonewall Inn

Kick off Gay Pride week with POGO EVENTS and TheMenEvent.com for "The Amazing New York Scavenger Hunt" - part scavenger hunt, part obstacle course and ALL GAY NEW YORK". A series of gay-themed clues that incorporates this year's NYC Pride theme lead you around the city performing physical and mental challenges. The race also contains a fierce photo scavenger hunt and an outrageous "roadblock" task for your team to complete. Don't miss this special edition: You're either out or you're in! REGISTER NOW

POSTPONED: Celebrate Gay S_X at the Met, Greek and Roman Style
Jun
17
6:00 pm18:00

POSTPONED: Celebrate Gay S_X at the Met, Greek and Roman Style

  • Metropolitan Museum of Art

What would you see if you looked carefully at the Greek and Roman art in the Metropolitan?  A lot of S_X, that's what, from self pleasing Satyrs to gods chasing their boyfriends.  The Greeks and the Romans had VERY different erotic customs from the modern West, and both cultures portrayed s_x and desire - straight and gay - quite openly in art.  It can, however, all be pretty baffling or a modern viewer.  Our professional guide (a foremost authority on erotic Greek art) will teach us to read the erotic side of the Metropolitan Museum's Greek and Roman collection.  A whole different erotic culture will open before your eyes. REGISTER NOW

Wed 6/8 Gay Speed Dating for Professionals
Jun
8
6:30 pm18:30

Wed 6/8 Gay Speed Dating for Professionals

  • Old Castle Pub

If you are a Gay Professional looking to find love, then look no further. You may meet the future love of your life, make a great new friend, or even meet a future business partner. This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. REGISTER HERE

Sat 5/21 - Gay Midtown Murder Mystery Scavenger Hunt
May
21
12:00 pm12:00

Sat 5/21 - Gay Midtown Murder Mystery Scavenger Hunt

  • Playwright Irish Pub

Sassy Sammy is a member of several social groups in the city.  One particular day Sammy attended several events, met with friends and toured some historic sites near Herald Square.  By the end of the night Sammy met a horrible fate and the police need your help to solve this case!   Join us for this fun daytime eventwhere you will join with other members of our group to set out on a mission to find clues to solve Sammy's case. Along the way you will learn amazing bits and pieces of NYC history that you probably never knew. REGISTER NOW 

Sat 5/14 - Gay Murder Mystery at Grand Central
May
14
5:30 pm17:30

Sat 5/14 - Gay Murder Mystery at Grand Central

  • Lexington's Lounge at the Cort Hotel

Meet Up Matty is a regular on the social circuit in New York. You'd probably know him if you've been out before.  He was very friendly and bubbly!  Unfortunately Matty met a horrific end at Grand Central and the police need you help to solve his case!  Join us for this fun and educational night where you will get to explore every corner of the NYC Landmark in ways that you never have before! REGISTER NOW

Mon 5/9 - Tour For Gay NYers: Highline Sunset and Spring Cutback Tour/Happy Hour
May
9
6:30 pm18:30

Mon 5/9 - Tour For Gay NYers: Highline Sunset and Spring Cutback Tour/Happy Hour

  • The Brass Monkey

See the Highline in a totally different way with the spring cutback which exposes a lot of what is covered during the summer. This is not a tour for tourists but for people who live in and around NY or who are new to the area who want to learn more about the city they live in and the amazing things they are surrounded by every day! REGISTER NOW

Wed 5/4 - May the Fourth Be With You at Discovery Times Square
May
4
12:30 pm12:30

Wed 5/4 - May the Fourth Be With You at Discovery Times Square

  • Discovery Times Square

May The Fourth Be With You!  Join in the fun of #StarWarsDay at Discovery Times Square with STAR WARS AND THE POWER OF COSTUME, The Exhibition! With giveaways and contests all day long, it is THE place to spend #StarWarsDay in New York.  Learn more about activities here http://bit.ly/1TlY8K9 and save $5 on admission when you use code BENJAMIN at the ticket counter.

Sun 5/1 - Shady Ladies of the Met Museum
May
1
11:00 am11:00

Sun 5/1 - Shady Ladies of the Met Museum

  • Met Museum of Art

Courtesans, royal mistresses, scandalous women of every sort—the Metropolitan Museum is crammed with them. These women-- often intelligent, educated, wealthy, or even powerful-- were key members of their political and cultural elites.  But who were they?  What were their stories?  Join us as we explore the lives and loves that lie behind the paintings. REGISTER NOW

FRI 4/15 - Gay Scavenger Hunt at MOMA
Apr
15
6:00 pm18:00

FRI 4/15 - Gay Scavenger Hunt at MOMA

  • Old Castle Tavern

Love art? Hate art? Just don't understand art? It doesn't matter, because you're sure to have fun with our MOMA Scavenger Hunt.  There is no better way to go see this artwork than with dozens of new friends!  Set out through the halls of the museum looking for clues to answer questions, have picture challenges and be a bit silly.  Along the way you will see artworks from Van Gogh, Monet, Dali, Matisse, Warhol, Pollack and more!  Upon check-in we'll group people together into teams (and have a drink).  REGISTER NOW