Gay Speed Dating for Scruffy Men and their Admirers: Sat 3/23
Mar
23
3:00 PM15:00

Gay Speed Dating for Scruffy Men and their Admirers: Sat 3/23

Time Out NY says "If you're a fuzzy dude or a total admirer, then head to this speed-dating hustle, where you can meet the furball of your dreams." How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night (it's a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other). Plus you get 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. BOOK NOW

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Scandals in Plain Sight Tour of the Met - Fri 4/5
Apr
5
6:15 PM18:15

Scandals in Plain Sight Tour of the Met - Fri 4/5

Broken eggs symbolizing lost virginity … a lute standing in for a man’s desires ... a lady’s slack shoulder strap suggesting adultery: Great art is full of hidden meanings, and more often than not, they involve sex. Discover the wiles that artists have employed to outwit censors. Professor Andrew Lear (world expert on gay art and four-time winner of the Harvard Certificate for Excellence in Teaching) leads this new eye-opening tour, "Scandals in Plain Sight at the Met." BOOK NOW

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Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Sat 4/6
Apr
6
2:00 PM14:00

Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Sat 4/6

This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus, you will get 3 additional bonus periods where you may meet anyone in the room. If there is mutual chemistry, we will connect the two and you can go on more dates. BOOK NOW

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Sun 4/7 Gay Murder Mystery Scavenger Hunt at Grand Central
Apr
7
3:00 PM15:00

Sun 4/7 Gay Murder Mystery Scavenger Hunt at Grand Central

Join The Men Event for this fun and educational event where you will get to explore every corner of the NYC Landmark in ways that you never have before! (If you have participated in our other Grand Central tours, no worries as this is a completely different experience)  You will learn, discover, uncover and socialize with other fun members of our group before during and after the hunt for clues!  No experience is necessary! BOOK NOW

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Gay Millionaire Matchmaker Speed Dating: Mon 4/22
Apr
22
6:30 PM18:30

Gay Millionaire Matchmaker Speed Dating: Mon 4/22

Created for the younger gay man (35 and under) who has the hots for the handsome older successful mature man, enjoying nights painting the town red with an older established gay.  If you often find sincere connections with men outside your age range, this is the event for you. How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night (it's a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other). Plus you get 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. BOOK NOW

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Gay Secrets of the Met - Fri 4/26
Apr
26
6:15 PM18:15

Gay Secrets of the Met - Fri 4/26

Join The Men Event for the most popular tour of the Met, led by one of the world authorities on Gay art. You will explore some of the Met's queer treasures, from ancient Greek nudes (and erotic vase-painting, on which Professor Lear is a world expert!) to homoerotic works from the Renaissance, and a panoply of modern works, some by LGBT artists, some portraying LGBT people, and some expressing same-sex desire. Famous artists and personalities, such as Caravaggio or Gertrude Stein, will appear-but so will lesser-known artists and works whose homoerotic charge is often ignored (including images used in homosexual initiation rites in New Guinea!). At the end of the tour, the group will head to one of the bars that is open for Met Fridays. BOOK NOW

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Sat 5/18: Gay History Walking Tour
May
18
4:00 PM16:00

Sat 5/18: Gay History Walking Tour

We all know about the Stonewall riots in 1969. But who knows that Mae West was arrested in Manhattan for producing a pro-gay-rights play in 1926? Or that Walt Whitman read his homoerotic poems to friends at a bar on Broadway? Professor Andrew Lear has designed this tour to bring New York's gay *history* out of the closet.  We leave from the historic Stonewall Inn (come early or stay after to enjoy an adult beverage). REGISTER NOW

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Sat 6/22: Gay History Walking Tour
Jun
22
1:00 PM13:00

Sat 6/22: Gay History Walking Tour

We all know about the Stonewall riots in 1969. But who knows that Mae West was arrested in Manhattan for producing a pro-gay-rights play in 1926? Or that Walt Whitman read his homoerotic poems to friends at a bar on Broadway? Professor Andrew Lear has designed this tour to bring New York's gay *history* out of the closet.  We leave from the historic Stonewall Inn (come early or stay after to enjoy an adult beverage). REGISTER NOW

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Gay Secrets of the Met - Sun June 23
Jun
23
1:00 PM13:00

Gay Secrets of the Met - Sun June 23

Join The Men Event for the most popular tour of the Met, led by one of the world authorities on Gay art. You will explore some of the Met's queer treasures, from ancient Greek nudes (and erotic vase-painting, on which Professor Lear is a world expert!) to homoerotic works from the Renaissance, and a panoply of modern works, some by LGBT artists, some portraying LGBT people, and some expressing same-sex desire. Famous artists and personalities, such as Caravaggio or Gertrude Stein, will appear-but so will lesser-known artists and works whose homoerotic charge is often ignored (including images used in homosexual initiation rites in New Guinea!). At the end of the tour, the group will head to one of the bars that is open for Met Fridays. BOOK NOW

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Sat 6/29: Gay History Walking Tour
Jun
29
4:00 PM16:00

Sat 6/29: Gay History Walking Tour

We all know about the Stonewall riots in 1969. But who knows that Mae West was arrested in Manhattan for producing a pro-gay-rights play in 1926? Or that Walt Whitman read his homoerotic poems to friends at a bar on Broadway? Professor Andrew Lear has designed this tour to bring New York's gay *history* out of the closet.  We leave from the historic Stonewall Inn (come early or stay after to enjoy an adult beverage). REGISTER NOW

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Gay Tipsy Painting Party: Sat 3/16
Mar
16
2:15 PM14:15

Gay Tipsy Painting Party: Sat 3/16

The popular Gay Tipsy Painting Party is a great way to meet new people and get your creative juices flowing. Join the fun and you can enjoy a beverage and some snacks while learning to paint your own personal masterpiece. Yes, it's a cocktail party and a painting class. Your ticket includes instruction from accredited artist, a 12x16 pre - sketched canvas, unlimited acrylic paint (water based) and painting supplies including brushes, aprons, and easels. You will learn the art of mixing colors, blending and painting techniques in this 2 hour class. Book your spot NOW

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Wild and Weird Gay Tour of the Met - Fri 3/8
Mar
8
6:00 PM18:00

Wild and Weird Gay Tour of the Met - Fri 3/8

Our NEW Gay tour of the Met. See the jars in where Egyptians kept mummified lungs, livers and various monsters. Gape at the amazing African power figures that witch doctors stuffed full of nails to stop the curses of sorcerers. Check out the Congolese mask that looks a lot like a certain most disgusting American president. Get into the Met's headhunting collection and see their own hook used to hang your skull collection. You'll see decapitations, castration (ouch), the creepiest murderess you’ve ever seen, the Met's favorite mummy and a LOT more. Plus - if the room is open - you might get a peek at the supernatural cradle that rocks on its own. Book Now

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POSTONED: Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Mon 3/4
Mar
4
6:30 PM18:30

POSTONED: Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Mon 3/4

This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus, you will get 3 additional bonus periods where you may meet anyone in the room. If there is mutual chemistry, we will connect the two and you can go on more dates.

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Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Mon 2/25
Feb
25
6:30 PM18:30

Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Mon 2/25

This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus, you will get 3 additional bonus periods where you may meet anyone in the room. If there is mutual chemistry, we will connect the two and you can go on more dates. BOOK NOW

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Gay Millionaire Matchmaker Speed Dating: Wed 2/20
Feb
20
6:30 PM18:30

Gay Millionaire Matchmaker Speed Dating: Wed 2/20

Created for the younger gay man (35 and under) who has the hots for the handsome older successful mature man, enjoying nights painting the town red with an older established gay.  If you often find sincere connections with men outside your age range, this is the event for you. How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night (it's a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other). Plus you get 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. BOOK NOW

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Sat 2/16: Saturday Night Swim Valentine's Weekend Pool Party
Feb
16
7:00 PM19:00

Sat 2/16: Saturday Night Swim Valentine's Weekend Pool Party

SATURDAY NIGHT SWIM: December edition / Presented by Guy Social with special guest host TheMenEvent, featuring surprise live Boylesque & Drag performances TBA! This men-only private event includes 2 drink tickets, steamy sauna, heated indoor pool with swim up bar, DJ, exclusive use of pool and amenities, DJ, swimwear pop-up shop and up to 200 great guys to flirt n' frolic with! RSVP NOW

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Fri 2/8:  Gay Murder Mystery Scavenger Hunt at Grand Central
Feb
8
7:00 PM19:00

Fri 2/8:  Gay Murder Mystery Scavenger Hunt at Grand Central

Join The Men Event for this fun and educational event where you will get to explore every corner of the NYC Landmark in ways that you never have before! (If you have participated in our other Grand Central tours, no worries as this is a completely different experience)  You will learn, discover, uncover and socialize with other fun members of our group before during and after the hunt for clues!  No experience is necessary! BOOK NOW

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Gay Family Minded Men Speed Dating - Fri 2/1
Feb
1
6:30 PM18:30

Gay Family Minded Men Speed Dating - Fri 2/1

Created for the gay man who has kids, wants kids or wants to meet that romantic match whowants to build a family. You will go on 8 short dates in one night with others men with the same mindset. Each short date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and effective way for gay men to meet each other. If there is chemistry from both guys, we will connect the two and you can go on more dates. BOOK NOW

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Gay Tipsy Painting Party: Wed 1/30
Jan
30
6:15 PM18:15

Gay Tipsy Painting Party: Wed 1/30

The popular Gay Tipsy Painting Party is a great way to meet new people and get your creative juices flowing. Join the fun and you can enjoy a beverage and some snacks while learning to paint your own personal masterpiece. Yes, it's a cocktail party and a painting class. Your ticket includes instruction from accredited artist, a 12x16 pre - sketched canvas, unlimited acrylic paint (water based) and painting supplies including brushes, aprons, and easels. You will learn the art of mixing colors, blending and painting techniques in this 2 hour class. Book your spot NOW

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Gay Speed Dating for Scruffy Men and their Admirers: Fri 1/25
Jan
25
6:30 PM18:30

Gay Speed Dating for Scruffy Men and their Admirers: Fri 1/25

Time Out NY says "If you're a fuzzy dude or a total admirer, then head to this speed-dating hustle, where you can meet the furball of your dreams." How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night (it's a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other). Plus you get 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. BOOK NOW

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Wild and Weird Gay Tour of the Met - Sat 1/19
Jan
19
4:00 PM16:00

Wild and Weird Gay Tour of the Met - Sat 1/19

Our NEW Gay tour of the Met. See the jars in where Egyptians kept mummified lungs, livers and various monsters. Gape at the amazing African power figures that witch doctors stuffed full of nails to stop the curses of sorcerers. Check out the Congolese mask that looks a lot like a certain most disgusting American president. Get into the Met's headhunting collection and see their own hook used to hang your skull collection. You'll see decapitations, castration (ouch), the creepiest murderess you’ve ever seen, the Met's favorite mummy and a LOT more. Plus - if the room is open - you might get a peek at the supernatural cradle that rocks on its own. Book Now

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Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Thurs 1/10
Jan
10
6:30 PM18:30

Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Thurs 1/10

This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus, you will get 3 additional bonus periods where you may meet anyone in the room. If there is mutual chemistry, we will connect the two and you can go on more dates. BOOK NOW

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Sat 12/29: Saturday Night Swim December Edition
Dec
29
7:00 PM19:00

Sat 12/29: Saturday Night Swim December Edition

SATURDAY NIGHT SWIM: December edition / Presented by Guy Social with special guest host TheMenEvent, featuring surprise live Boylesque & Drag performances TBA! This men-only private event includes 2 drink tickets, steamy sauna, heated indoor pool with swim up bar, DJ, exclusive use of pool and amenities, DJ, swimwear pop-up shop and up to 200 great guys to flirt n' frolic with! RSVP NOW

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Sat 12/15: Afternoon Gay Gingerbread House Class and Brunch for Adults Only)
Dec
15
2:00 PM14:00

Sat 12/15: Afternoon Gay Gingerbread House Class and Brunch for Adults Only)

Forget Painting Nights, join us for a night where you can eat your artwork!! Welcome to NYC's only Gay Gingerbread House Making Class, Cocktails & Holiday Cartoons Party (for adult gays only)! It will be a night of holiday cheer as you come together with other fun members of TheMenEvent and friends for socializing eating and drinking. A NEW Holiday Tradition. BOOK NOW

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Sat 12/15: Holiday Lights Scavenger Hunt
Dec
15
1:00 PM13:00

Sat 12/15: Holiday Lights Scavenger Hunt

Try something different on a weekend afternoon plus see all the awesome Holiday Lights in a fun and unique way. You will not look at the famous holiday decorations in the same way! Join us for this fun evening of exploring, socializing, and holiday spirit as you set out to visit and find clues that are a part of the famous holiday decorations from Herald Square to Rock Center. Along the way you will also learn some interesting historical facts about the city that you live in. The group will meet at a midtown pub, head out for the hunt then return to the same pub where we will be hosting a happy hour. BOOK NOW

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Sat 12/15: Gay Grand Central History Tour
Dec
15
12:00 PM12:00

Sat 12/15: Gay Grand Central History Tour

TheMenEvent's most popular tour!Learn about secret platforms, top secret rooms and interesting facts and surprises during this adventure filled with exploring, socializing and learning. Meet other dynamic gays in our group while really getting a different perspective on one of New York's most famous landmarks. Following the tour the group is invited to stay together for food and drink at a local tavern. BOOK NOW

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Wed 12/5: GayLarious The LGBT Stand Up Show - Holiday Laugh Riot
Dec
5
8:00 PM20:00

Wed 12/5: GayLarious The LGBT Stand Up Show - Holiday Laugh Riot

Gaylarious is the stand-up comedy show featuring a great line-up of NYC's funniest LGBT and LGBT friendly comedians from TV, radio and comedy clubs across the country. You'll have a gay ole' time with a line-up of hysterical comics designed to have you laughing right down to your gay funny bones.  BOOK NOW

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Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Mon 12/3
Dec
3
6:30 PM18:30

Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Mon 12/3

This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus, you will get 3 additional bonus periods where you may meet anyone in the room. If there is mutual chemistry, we will connect the two and you can go on more dates. BOOK NOW

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Sat 11/17: Gay History Walking Tour (Fall Colors Edition)
Nov
17
2:00 PM14:00

Sat 11/17: Gay History Walking Tour (Fall Colors Edition)

We all know about the Stonewall riots in 1969. But who knows that Mae West was arrested in Manhattan for producing a pro-gay-rights play in 1926? Or that Walt Whitman read his homoerotic poems to friends at a bar on Broadway? Professor Andrew Lear has designed this tour to bring New York's gay *history* out of the closet.  We leave from the historic Stonewall Inn (come early or stay after to enjoy an adult beverage). REGISTER NOW

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Gay Secrets of the Met - Fri 11/16
Nov
16
6:15 PM18:15

Gay Secrets of the Met - Fri 11/16

Join The Men Event for the most popular tour of the Met, led by one of the world authorities on Gay art. You will explore some of the Met's queer treasures, from ancient Greek nudes (and erotic vase-painting, on which Professor Lear is a world expert!) to homoerotic works from the Renaissance, and a panoply of modern works, some by LGBT artists, some portraying LGBT people, and some expressing same-sex desire. Famous artists and personalities, such as Caravaggio or Gertrude Stein, will appear-but so will lesser-known artists and works whose homoerotic charge is often ignored (including images used in homosexual initiation rites in New Guinea!). At the end of the tour, the group will head to one of the bars that is open for Met Fridays. BOOK NOW

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Gay Pumpkin Carving Class and Party
Oct
29
7:00 PM19:00

Gay Pumpkin Carving Class and Party

Learn to carve a pumpkin like a pro! Join us for this fun night where you will get to socialize, eat, drink and amaze your friends with your carving skills after you come home with a unique Jack-O-lantern that will glow for the Halloween season! The group will meet for cocktails at the bar then settle down and learn some cool techniques that will make you carve a pumpkin better than your parents did! We will have a fun contest to see who has the best pumpkin too!  REGISTER NOW

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Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Tues 10/23
Oct
23
6:30 PM18:30

Gay Speed Dating for Professionals - Tues 10/23

This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus, you will get 3 additional bonus periods where you may meet anyone in the room. If there is mutual chemistry, we will connect the two and you can go on more dates. BOOK NOW

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Wed 10/17: Gay Networking Party and Private Shopping Event
Oct
17
5:00 PM17:00

Wed 10/17: Gay Networking Party and Private Shopping Event

No Cover. After a highly successful event last season, we are again partnering with Union Square Optical to create another very special, uber Gay Private Shopping and networking event.  Featuring complimentary wine and chips, lots of handsome men, networking, flirting and giveaways.  Plus, all attendees shall get 50% off all frames in the store including brand new looks for the fall season including designs from Dita, Tom Ford, Oliver Peoples, Paul Smith, Garrett Leight, Entourage of 7, and other fashion forward eyewear and sunwear. Click here to see the full list of designers. RSVP NOW

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Gay Millionaire Matchmaker Speed Dating: Tues 10/9
Oct
9
6:30 PM18:30

Gay Millionaire Matchmaker Speed Dating: Tues 10/9

Created for the younger gay man (35 and under) who has the hots for the handsome older successful mature man, enjoying nights painting the town red with an older established gay.  If you often find sincere connections with men outside your age range, this is the event for you. How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night (it's a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other). Plus you get 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room. BOOK NOW

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